Tired but wiser for the time
After having done this job for as long as I have, and in dealing with our customers, I have realized that a majority of our customers are one time contact callers only. Majority of them just don't understand how the internet and other things work exactly. It's not their fault, it's the advertising, movies, etc.. etc.. They assume it's a flawless system always on, and when it's down, there's some geek in overall's tramping through a million wires to figure out what the pet rat unplugged.
In addition to having done this job, I've learned a lot of things about how to handle CSR's onthe line to get things done properly, how to handle myself in public in dealing with poor customer service, and how to resolve many issues with internet, phone and tv service that I might not have been so commonly fluent in before.
Now, I also realize I have an issue with getting and keeping "stuff." We overvalue stuff. That was, and still is a big problem for me when I have no money. I fell poor, and stuff seemed valuable, so almost instinctively I accumulate it. Friends leave something behind when they move, or I’ll see something as I'm walking down the street on trash night (beware of anything you find yourself describing as “perfectly good”), or I’ll find something in almost new condition for a tenth its retail price at a garage sale. And pow, more stuff. In fact these free or nearly free things weren’t bargains, because they were worth even less than they cost. It's not a matter of the value of what you acquire, it's a matter of how profitable is it to you? Be that as in re-sell value or other usefulness that derived from it. Most of the stuff I accumulate is worthless, because I don’t need it.
What I sometimes don't understand is that the value of some new acquisition isn’t the difference between its retail price and what I paid for it. It was the value I derived from it. Stuff is an extremely illiquid asset. Unless you have some plan for selling that valuable thing you got so cheaply, what difference does it make what it’s “worth?” The only way you’re ever going to extract any value from it is to use it. And if you don’t have any immediate use for it, you probably never will. This I have learned through years of going though this, and in my current still in debt at the bank situation, I found myself again striving to accumalate things to make up for my deficets.
The same thing for me applies to nic-nacs purchased during vacations. It's not the item you brought back that is the memory, it's the experiences you had that makes up your memories of the trip. A statue, a keychain, a t-shirt, none of these are memories. Sure they'll spark what you did and how you got it and where it came from, so you can bring forth those electrodes in your brain that retain the information from that trip. But is this all they're really good for? Most likely yes. that statue of the bear climbing the tree from your Yellowstone National Park vacation does no good sitting in a box, or sitting on the mantle if all it is there for is to remember the trip.
Lastly for the randomness of randomnessity, check out Pew Pew Pew! for links to some Charterieans World of Warcrack characters and their armory links.
Labels: Debt, Growing up, Pewpewpew, Realization, Stuff, Vacation, Value
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Value cannot be measured in dollars and cents, but sure they ($) can bring comfort to one's life. They are but an annoyance in order to make our life simple and enjoyable and give us the ability to improve our own lives as well as others. When times get really tough, take the time to help someone else by giving them YOUR time, not your money. Many have lost loved ones and precious friends and pets, and those things you speak of give us inner peace when we can focus on them and put ourselves in a better place in our hearts. As bad as things can look many times, you have to have faith they will get better and look ahead for that time and not focus on the struggle, but keep the compass arrow pointed in the direction of what you want, *if* you know what that is.
Don't let the money thing get you down - perhaps seek out some advice from a professional such as http://www.creditcounseling.org/HelpfulResources/Default.asp. We've all been through it...work towards a resolution - it will be slow - and in the meantime, focus on what is important in life - your friends, your family, doing what you enjoy (that doesn't cost too much money - the best things don't), get outside and walk, have fun and laugh. Life will get better.
Anyone who's ever taken care of a family member with terminal cancer has a different perspective on life - when you see someone you love so dearly struggle just to try to reach over to touch a kitten, or try with all their might just to walk by themselves to the bathroom on their own falling down a few times along the way, or to be able to open their mouth just enough to take a spoonful of applesauce or possibly their last taste of ice cream, you begin to appreciate the fact that you can open your eyes in the morning and be able to see, to wash yourself, to smile without hurting, hug your loved ones and still have your dignity and you still have choices. If we can savor those things we take for granted, and learn to harness the fact that with God willing we still have the ability to take positive steps forward, be patient with ourselves as much as we do those we love, life will hopefully appear more precious as will the lives of those around us, and it will get better.
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